Friday, October 29, 2010

WHAT IS FAMILY GLORY ALL ABOUT?



First, lets clarify what Family Glory IS NOT!

IT'S NOT BETRAYING SOMEONE.

IT'S NOT LYING TO SOMEONE.

IT'S NOT TAKING ADVANTAGE/USING SOMEONE.

IT'S NOT SAYING YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSING THEM.

IT'S NOT CHEATING ON SOMEONE YOU ARE MARRIED TO OR IN A COMMIT ED RELATIONSHIP WITH.

IT'S NOT STEALING FROM SOMEONE.

You can probably add to this list. Well, Family Glory would be the opposite of these factors that hurt people....and only HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE.

Walk in Love. Forgive those who've done you wrong; not for them, but for you.
Treat people how you desire to be treated, if you absolutely Love You!

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

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Thursday, October 21, 2010

EMBRACE and LET GO!


How many of you have family or even friends that will be apart of your life no matter what happens. Those who are not just here for the good times, but who will be there for the challenging times, even when trials may come between you and that person. These are the people you celebrate and appreciate.

There are others that will say they are here for you whether it's family or not, but many are in your life for a "conditional means". Meaning if the conditions are convenient for them and they are in agreement with you, they are there. As soon as "the sh.....t hits the fan", many bail out and basically you're on your own. Some even have the nerve to make their way back into your life when the same has happened to them....what I mean is, they remember how good you were to them, when others have let them down.

Ain't that some SH.......T! Excuse my language, but it is real. And many who are sincere and pure hearted people can be so stupid and naive by allowing the same person to repeatedly do the same thing over and over and over again.
I'm saying this because I'm guilty and now sick and tired of being sick and tired. It's time to shed the leaches so I can move forward in life and embrace even the more those who are for me. Take my advise and save yourself some heartache...do the same. You'll have peace in the end.

Friday, October 15, 2010

DIVORCED BUT FRIENDS


I've been divorced for 10 yrs now, and struggled with my X after the break-up. Why? I wondered, it was over. I wasn't happy the way it ended, but it was necessary. And although it didn't work out after 7yrs., I didn't hold that against him. Well, maybe in the beginning, because my desire was to marry one time, and the children were my concern. But I got over it quick....my X dragged it out for many years. I just let it be and contacted him as little as possible to avoid dramatic arguments.


After many years of not being able to have a decent conversation with my X, my son was the one who made this happen, believe it or not. I had been wanting to get his father to see, that it wasn't about us anymore, but what we could do to still make life easy for our son. Of course my X couldn't see past the bitterness he had for me. So, my son had to suffer.....and this hurt my heart.

Now being a teenager, my son made some demands for us to work this family thing out or he would rebel in the worse way. Guess what, we finally got it together....I thank God for my son. At least one of us had enough sense to take some serious action and bring us back together as a family. I'm not saying my X and I are back together, but we do things still as a family. Why? We are friends and that makes my son a happy young man.

Forgiveness is the Key to make Family Glory a success.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

A TIME OF BIRTH AND DEATH1


Oct. 9th my brother celebrates his birthday, but since 2000, he's been going through it because my mom passed away on that day. What he feels is something I will never understand, because it's more than my feelings of hurt I feel. So, one of our rituals is to go to the grave site (both parents are there), and do a little landscaping.

We went this Sunday with my son and his dad and it was a pleasant experience, but moreso a time of healing. We cleaned off the stone and planted huge mumms around it. We also laughed and took pictures. I can see each year being more of a celebration for him of his life and her transition to a higher plane of existence vs. a morbid death. Having family around definitely helps the heart to heal when someone very close to you passes on.

The beautiful thing about it is both of my parents are together....and we love them today more than ever.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

LET'S GET REACQUAINTED WITH FAMILY!


Last night I was in the store with my daughter and as we were at the check-out counter talking there was a man in front of us. For some reason, he turned around look me in the face and continued to pay for his items. At first I thought it strange the way he looked at me, until I realized he was my cousin who I hadn't seen for years. He probably didn't recognize me because it was rainy and I had a hat on with the brim pulled down low right to my eyes.
So I said, "I know that's not my cousin who just looked me in my face and turned around?" He turned back around and stared at me with the facial expression as if he knows me, "but who's child are you in my family?".....saying nothing. I told him my nick name, because that is what he remembers me by, and he stood there still as if he was in shock. So, we embraced and my daughter said, "What cousin is this mom?" This is when it hit me. We have gotten so far away from family that live in towns near, it's a shame.
The sad thing about this is our families grew up together and were very close. His grandmother and my mother are sisters. We always had family gatherings for all occasions and especially on Sundays. But since the older generation that held our family together has passed on, we forgot about what was so important to them, and this should be reestablished.

To top it off, we now live in the same town. So, there is no excuse for us to reacquaint ourselves and family. Both of us have daughters two years apart in age that have never met each other.....WE MUST DO BETTER TO GET OUR FAMILY GLORY BACK. IT BEGINS WITH ME AND YOU.
Is this your situation? Is it now just about what you can get for you and your immediate family forgetting about the extension of family you have? This is a serious problem and the reason many of our people have a struggle growing and prospering. Now, everybody puts their family business out there: on facebook, twitter even on the streets....SAD, SAD, SAD,.....instead of helping each other in times of trails.
What are you going to do to change the atrocity that is taking place withing our families?

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Friends Til the End!


A friend of mine passed away. It was very sudden and unexpected. But sometime prior to this, we had some differences that really disturbed me and apart of me wanted to end the friendship. Now, there was a higher part of me that just wouldn't allow me to do so, and I'm so glad I listened. I was able to hold on to what was more important, RELATIONSHIP, and this is what "FAMILY GLORY" is all about.

I talked to her in her last days, and before she died, there was a peace and tranquility in her voice. Now that I think about it, maybe that was her way of saying goodbye. I also know now that she needed me to talk to, and if I would have held a grudge, I would feel guilty at this moment. But not today, although my friend has gone away, I'm happy that we maintained our relationship; I HAVE NO REGRETS! THIS IS WHAT "FAMILY GLORY" IS ALL ABOUT!

If you are holding a grudge against someone, LET IT GO, you don't know when they will see you no more. LOVE, EVEN IF IT HURTS---BECAUSE EVENTUALLY IT WILL HEAL! Just another side of the Hair Dr.