Monday, December 13, 2010

Relationships are build on selfLESSness not selfishness.


There are many women who feel they "have it going on".....they have their lives in order, but have a challenge in the area of "RELATIONSHIPS". After just listening to the conversation with many women, I see why they have a problem.....SELFISHNESS. They have a fantasy/false concept in their head of how the relationship should go on a day to day basis. They look through their own eyes at everything and that's a "BIG" mistake.

There is a saying, "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus." This is so true. Men are very basic and we are so detailed with everything. We must realize that there is a mystery in two separate individuals becoming one in a committed relationship. The person who we know today is totally different tomorrow and we must reacquaint ourselves with this mysterious being.

Ladies, just think , we can be so loving one day and such a "b..ch", the next....that's the mystery of a women that men have to deal with. So, don't you think that he forever goes through changes within himself also. Let's put it this way, if you are lacking something in your relationship, give it....need more love-give more love; need more time-give more of your time or make yourself more available to him when he asks. As for money that's a different issue---If he has no money, he needs no honey.

There is so much to talk about, but this will do for now!

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